Thursday, January 3, 2008
11:27 PM
I'd watched Pride and Prejudice, a movie from the novel written by Jane Austen ages ago. Frankly, the movie didn't impress me that much. Today, i watched a movie, closely connected to Jane Austen - Becoming Jane. And now...now i know whatz love. What life has taught me, what Deb has told me, what the movie reflects, came to the same conclusion. A big part of love, is about sacrifice. When you love someone, really love someone, sometimes u just gotta bite your lip and turn away, if your love causes unwanted threats to be aimed at the person you love. When u walk away from him, you'll feel like u're being pulled away from gravity...and the air around you goes thinner and thinner, the world spins around involuntarily; but you've gotta keep it from collapsing, cause u can't let him know what damage it has caused to your world, just because of his absence. Of course, love has so many sides...like the wonderful aspects that deb has shared with me.
Well, Deb, this is different from your version, i know, haha...What i meant was that we both agree that a part of love is about sacrifice. And Deb, thanks for telling me your views about love. No, i did not really ponder on this matter, just wanted to listen to different views about love which, to me, is such a wonderful thing. Different people sees love in different ways, i guess.
There's a quote in Meg Cabot's work - The Mediator - which i really like. It says: If you love something, set it free. If it was meant to be, it'll come back to you. I like it because it keeps you from turning love into a form of obsession subconsciously.
Loving true love,
Jass
